Let me just say something to any monger out there that reads this site or any monger site. None of it’s real. It’s all an illusion designed to separate you from your money.

Said It Before & Will Say It Again

If you ever go on a mongering trip expecting love or authenticity I have some really bad news for you. I have already stated it before and I’ll state it again, its complete bullshit.

This is coming from a guy sitting in a bar more hours a day than I ever wanted to and I see more bullshit and more crap than you could possibly image.

If you “catch feelings” then like a cold or flu, learn to cure it until it goes away and money isn’t the answer to the problem. It’s just fuels the symptom.

It’s Always About The Money

This comes down from the guy running the bar you drink at to the girls you are paying. We care only about the money at the end of the day. I may cut you a break and give you some slack but when the day ends, it’s about the final takings for the night.

No one really cares at the end of the day. I may like you and call you friend but I am also trying to make money and thats my number one motivation at the end of the day. The girls are the exact same way. They may like you but they really want their money at the end of the day.

Mongering is and has always been around the money and it’s never going to be an authentic or genuine experience. Until you learn this and more so, accept it you are just a sucker to be taken and used by all of us involved in the industry.

Why I Say This

You may be wondering why I am telling you all this considering I run a bar. Thing is dear readers, I deal with too many that think this is some sort of reality. It’s not. Not even remotely close. None of it’s real. It’s all an illusion and the sooner you understand this the better off you are going to be.

Stop coming on a holiday and falling in love with a whore. Bar managers may like you but ultimately we are selling you something. Everyone needs to understand this. Have a great time. Do what you want and spend what you want. Just recognize you are nothing but a walking/talking ATM machine.

So remember, none of it’s real. Just keep repeating that to yourself. The time you are having is amazing. Enjoy it. Get on the plane home and keep the memories. Just don’t ever think it has a deeper meaning than a holiday experience you can tell your friends about.